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Daphne Back Road Bears
Laconia, NH USA
Posts: 6,568

Dad had his third surgery in Boston today for another aortic aneurysm. This is the aneurysm that we thought was causing the pain in his legs making it so that he couldn't walk the past 6 months.

The surgery was long but went smoothly. The surgeon was also able to use a scope to be sure the other repairs he's already done were holding and he said it all looked great. BUT..... he didn't think that the repair of this aneurysm was going to get rid of the pain after "seeing" what was going on during surgery. The bottom line is that he doesn't know what's causing it. Dad's been to other specialists, this seemed the most likely cause of all the pain. This was our only hope and we've been anticipating this surgery for 6 weeks now.

Dad has been in recovery for 4 hours for minor complications, they finally let mom and I in to recovery to see him because it was getting so late and we've been at the hospital for 11 hours waiting... we're walking zombies. He doesn't know yet about the doctor's prognosis. He's going to be so discouraged. The pain and quality of his life has gotten to him so badly, on an emotional level, already. I can't imagine how this is going to effect him.

To add to the stress of the day the nursing home called me about my grandmother. She is going downhill very quickly. There is nothing I can do. I need to be with my mom and dad in Boston. Mom and I are the only family she's got and we can't be there for her. It's sad. And our emotions are being stretched to the limit.

When will all this end?

Could you keep my Mom and Dad, Jean & Frank, in your prayers? One would think God would be sick of hearing about my Dad by now but I'm not giving up!

Thank you! And Thank God for wireless internet in hotels!

SueAnn Past Time Bears
Double Oak, Texas
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Oh goodness, Daphne . . . what a dilemma - I'm so sorry.  All I know to do is send you my biggest virtual hugs and send your whole family my best wishes for a calm and comforting outcome to all of this.  You're in my thoughts.  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:

Lhearn Critters Creations
Alberta
Posts: 1,303
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Daphne You need a hug in a big way! When it rains it pours.....I know cause I have been going through some suff here for a long time.  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:

bubbles Bearz by Ilze
Canberra
Posts: 391

You are all in my prayers!  I know it is difficult to understand how all of this can benefit in the end, but God's plan is a perfect one.  We have trust that He knows what He is doing and I trust that things will get better.....I pray that you may receive the strenght to cope and deal with things one day at a time.

Delartful Bears Delartful Bears
Australia
Posts: 3,518

Oh dear Daph - I am so sorry.  You really are having a very difficult time at the moment  bear_cry   :hug:  :hug:

My thoughts are with you and your family at the moment,
Danni

doodlebears Doodlebears
UK
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Poor you Daphne, it has been a lot for you and your poor mum. I'm sending you lots of prayers and big hugs. So sorry that you are all hurting right now. I hope your dad gets much better very soon. I know how much you would like to be with you grandmother, I'm sending prayers for her.

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Hugs Jane.  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:

valewoodbears Valewood Bears
Yorkshire
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Oh Daphne, too much all at once for you to cope with.  Sending my hugs and prayers for you.  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:

Pauline

samanthapotter Mary Myrtle Miniatures
Cheltenham, UK
Posts: 800
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Oh Daphne!  What a lot to cope with!  Sending you lots of hugs and positive vibes. :hug:  :hug:
I hope things will calm down again for you soon. :hug:  :hug:

pandamac 'EmBears
Northern New York State
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Lots and lots of prayers and hugs coming to you and your family........
Ellen

Tammy Beckoning Bears
Nova Scotia
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Daphne I echo what Ilze said.  It can be so hard when you want to make everything better yourself.  You can't do it all, just do the best you can- one day at a time.  Lots of hugs and prayers to you and your family at this terribly stressful time.    :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:

Jodi Falk Bears by Jodi
Gahanna , Ohio USA
Posts: 3,463

GOD is never tired of hearing our prayers !! I pray for all your loved ones that GOD'S peace and love and healing will be there . Hang in their honey there is light at the end of the tunnel !! I promise !! Just think how great your mountain will be after being in the valley !!

TamiL Dolls N Dreams
Aurora, Colorado
Posts: 6,454

Oh Daphne I'm so sorry for everything you & your family are going through right now. I hope things get much better. Sending prayers and hugs for you and yours!  :pray:  :pray:  :hug:  :hug:

Laura Lynn Teddy Bear Academy
Nicholasville, KY
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Daphne... HUGE HUGE hugs to you, your Mom and Dad and Nana too.  I wish I could be there with you.  Sending many prayers, good thoughts and virtual hugs your way.....

Marie_ Kiprie Bears
Yokohama, Japan
Posts: 2,735

Daphne, I'm sending my hugs and prayers for you and your family. :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:           

Marie

thumperantiques Newcastle, Ontario
Posts: 5,644

Daphne,
    I am so sorry your dad is still having so much pain!  It boggles my mind that they can send men to the moon, but can't locate your dad's problem!!!  It must be difficult for all of you - I'm sending lots of hugs and will keep you all in  my prayers.

                                  hugs, :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:

                                  Brenda

Swan Valley Bears Swan Valley Bears
Penn Valley, CA
Posts: 1,845

Daphne,   You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

burlisonbears Burlison Bears
Louisville, Kentucky
Posts: 1,174

Daphne,

I hate to hear such sad news. Life can really get you down sometimes....just know that you have lots of teddy bear friends here on TT that are praying for you and your loved ones...and we all truly do care. Hope I can be of more help to you when I move to the Boston area next month. Let me know if there's anything I can do. In the meantime I will pray  :pray:  and send hugs  :hug:  your way.

-Eliza

lapousmor Sophie Z'Ours
Sarthe, France
Posts: 2,770

I send you lots of hugs, Daphne and will keep your family and yourself in my thoughts.

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Beary hugs,
Sophie.

Acipenser Bine-Teddies
Stockholm
Posts: 862

So sorry to hear this Daphne.  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:

edie Bears by Edie
Southern Alberta
Posts: 2,068

Thinking of you, Daphne and hoping things get better really soon.

psichick78 Flying Fur Studios
Calgary, Alberta, Canada
Posts: 3,073

Oh man, I have nothing to say that will help but I feel for you and i'll keep my thoughts and good energy your way.
You've had it soo rough lately you need a breaK!

I hope your dad recovers to a level that he can live with.

Marlys Waggle Bears
So Cal Desert
Posts: 4,089

I'm so sorry to hear both your dad's prognosis is not good and your grandmother is failing. You can't be in two places at once, though I know you'd like to be. Thoughts and prayers are with you. :hug:  :pray:  :hug:  :pray:  :hug:  :pray:

sewing stars sewing stars
providence, rhode island
Posts: 219

oh daphne!! i am sooo sorry to hear all the sadness touching you! i have your whole family in my thoughts!
((((hugs!!))))

Gijzette Elfin Bears
Mount Dora FL
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Hi Daphne,

I'm so sorry to hear that your Dad is still having issues. Sending you prayers and hugs that he will recover to a level that is manageable.

Hugs,

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I Love Teddies South Florida
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oh Daphne, I'm so sorry.  You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.  All I and Bluebeary can do is send you many, many hugs.   :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:

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